The golden rule for bedside tables is comfort. Aim for your nightstand to sit...

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The golden rule for bedside tables is comfort. Aim for your nightstand to sit roughly 5-10 cm below the top of your mattress. This keeps your essentials within easy reach without you needing to stretch or crouch